In which I go out and have a lot of fun. And FAR too much wine!

Saturday afternoon Syl texted me; she and C were in town. Turns out RB had gotten a recording gig and had hired the rest of the band to schlep gear. C worked while Syl and I hung out Saturday night. When C was done, I invited them to crash in the front room to save them sleeping in the studio, which is filthy.

Sunday I made brunch and we had a lovely lazy morning. Syl & C left. I read and took a nap and generally lazed around. Gramma took me to Applebee’s for dinner that afternoon.

Sunday night C & Syl picked me up and gave me a comp ticket for night two of the recording event and we all went downtown to see the Randy Oxford Band.

The hostess tried to get RB to introduce the band. He didn’t feel like it, so I volunteered because I knew he would strip it out of the recording later and do a voice-over. (I hadn’t realized at the time that they were filming too.) I forgot to tell the crowd to turn off their cell phone ringers, and had to read both the venue’s and the band’s names off of a post-it note, but it was fun anyway.

Jazz The band opened with a jazz funk chart, then moved into Motown and blues. I liked them a lot, especially the rhythm section. The bass player was a monster player, with a lovely doo-wop falsetto he broke out on some Marvin Gaye covers. The drummer was solid as a rock; he also sang a medley during the third set.

The band leader, a trombone player, was a solid player and fun to watch but primarily his gift is in coalescing a kick-ass band around himself. Everybody got a chance to solo, and he invited a few local players up to sit in. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t hope to be invited up myself, but it didn’t happen… a good thing in the long run, ’cause I was shitfaced by halfway through the second set.

I befriended their vocalist, a fierce little black chick named Patty. After the first set (during which she did ‘Dr. Feelgood’: omfg I love that chart!) I explained that the mic she was using needed her to get right up on it or she’d sound thin. “Why didn’t they tell me that?” she asked, tilting her head toward the guys behind the board. “Because they’re men?” I said. She laughed and hugged me. I bugged her in between all her sets, and at the end of the night she gifted me with a heavily sequined blingy shawl she wears around her hips for gigs. “It’s very sparkly, so you don’t have to move that much,” she told me. She’s been singing for 40 years and had a lot of presence. The local folks told me I have way better chops, but chops don’t always matter. She had the gig, not me, and I thought she was wonderful and gracious.

The bass player said, “You’re the chick in that recording R played? Yeah? So when you movin’ to Tacoma?” It’s so nice when a monster player says something like that to a girl, don’t you find?

Later in the evening I met a flaming creature who danced with me and then invited me to a gay bar in the Tri Cities for his birthday in a few weeks.

After the gig, I packed microphones and ran around being a friendly, stupidly drunken spaz. Then C and I went to Shari’s and ate, then went back to the house where Syl was already asleep from when we’d brought her home between sets. I went to bed…

…and stayed in bed pretty much consistently until I had to come to work this morning. Wine hangovers? Suck.

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4 Responses to Attending a chichi wine event.

  1. naomi says:

    it sounds like you had a fun weekend. that’s a good thing. so…when are you moving to tacoma?

    Uh, never? -m

  2. Jim@HiTek says:

    On another note, don’t you find it annoying when your favorite bartender, the one that always stops to talk to you as she’s whizzing by, the one that always seemed to ‘forget’ to charge you for everything you ordered, just got her second DUI and by Alaskan law CANNOT SET FOOT IN A BAR for a year!!! OH, NO!!!

    I can’t even take her out for a drink to commiserate. Damn. And she is a babe. Small and pretty with long red flowing hair, slim of figure with nice boobs and butt, with a talent to dress herself to show it all off. Sigh, I’m going to miss her a lot.

    Sniff.

    You poor, poor man! -m

  3. Only Me says:

    I do not condone DUI of course, but that seems excessively harsh and rather fucking stupid. If some one has even an inkling of a drink problem it’s gonna get worse if they have to sit around in their own house drinking away their woes.

    Sad.

    Very. -m

  4. Jim@HiTek says:

    I agree with you. Seems a little harsh to me too.

    And what could have happened to her is that she’s in a state where customers are allowed to buy her a drink while she’s working. There is a military base here, she’s 32 and pretty so it happens that she can get hammered before quiting time. I can see where she might have had a few to many and couldn’t shake the high before she had to get out of there by 3am. I was there until 2:30 that night and counted her tips for her (closing is 2am). She seemed a little ‘off’ that night but I didn’t recognize it as being drunk. I don’t condone driving while you’re looped in any way so if I’d noticed it, I would have sat with her, strongly encouraged her to eat something and drink lots of water. Too late now.

    B-t-w, I’m not sure, but I remember hearing that if she’s caught in a bar now it could mean 1 year in jail. Chances of getting caught are slim of course, if she goes to a bar she didn’t work at.

    As a bartender, she should have known better, but yeah – the whole thing seems to suck. Especially since now she has to get another job. -m